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Get Through Losing Someone
Grief
Also called Bereavement, Grieving, Losing someone close, Death of a parent
Who it's forA man who lost someone close, months ago, and still cannot sleep, work or get back to his life.
When to see a doctor
- New or worse dark thoughts, agitation or anxiety after starting an antidepressant or changing the dose: call the doctor right away.
- Symptoms of prolonged grief: sadness or guilt that is not easing as the months go by, not being able to return to everyday life, or suicidal thoughts. See your doctor.
- Low mood for more than 2 weeks, struggling to cope, not eating or sleeping, or what you are trying yourself is not helping: see your doctor.
- Drinking heavily or using drugs since the death: tell the doctor. If you drink every day and get withdrawal symptoms, get medical help before you stop.
- A traumatic or sudden death, one you saw or heard about: flashbacks, nightmares, intrusive images or avoiding every reminder can be PTSD. See your doctor. It has its own treatment.
- Grief that has not eased after six months or more, that stops you working or living, or after a sudden or violent death: see your doctor soon. Stuck grief is treatable, and your doctor can point you to specialist grief care.
I am not a doctor. This is not medical advice. This is self-education. Every dose on this page is the one a trial or a label used, quoted from the source. It is not a prescription.